Envy

by Kristen DeLap


The journey to be a better product manager or product designer, like most professional careers, is full of comparison. Comparison against others on the same career track, against other product teams and their resourcing or maturity, comparison against other products at other companies (which can be great research!), comparison against other areas of the business and their ability to drive or accomplish work, and the list goes on.

Comparison can often trap us in envy. You do the comparison, find your own lacking, and wish you had the other. This is how some features get put into roadmaps, after all. But looked at slightly larger, the comparisons that make us envious might also have something to teach us - especially if we think about it in terms of personal or professional growth. The twinge of envy is a trigger that we are unhappy or desire to change something. Can we spin that into an action?

A bite-size podcast I often listen to is the Before Breakfast podcast by Laura Vanderkam (episodes are around 5-10 minutes). She had a specific episode called “Understand your Jealousy”, which speaks to this idea of finding meaning in what makes you envious, albeit in a more personal setting. Finding your “pain point” of what makes you envious allows you to do something about it.


STAND-UP EXERCISE

Do whiteboard exercises with your team to kick off a conversation. My team did this exercise over two different stand-ups, but you could combine to one, time-permitting.

The first whiteboard is asking folks what makes them envious. I put it on a scale of personal to professional, so we could spark conversation easily but still dig into the workplace-focused topics. The second whiteboard flips the idea, asking why might others be envious of you? This is meant to open up the understanding of jealousy (that sometimes what you perceive isn’t reality) and that it can also be a real driver for behavior.

What forward steps can we create from where we see our envy? And where can we help others by noticing their envy of us? How do we turn what can be seen as a negative emotion into a call for action?

Image of a virtual whiteboard titled "What Makes You Envious?" with sticky notes placed on a continuum from Personal to Professional.
Image of a virtual whiteboard titled "What Makes Others Envious of You?" with sticky notes placed on a continuum from Personal to Professional

Envision the Future

by Kristen DeLap


For weeks where the team is feeling overwhelmed or when we are all approaching tight deadlines, I like to keep the standup topics lighter and the “homework” to a minimum. One way to do that is to bring in pop culture, or to have the topic be video-based. This week’s does both!

In the late 80’s AT&T ran a campaign entitled “You Will” that was their vision of the future, and how AT&T was going to get us there. It’s hard to find high fidelity digital clips of ads that were VHS- taped decades ago, but this is one of the best compilations I’ve found. The campaign centered around connecting folks in new digital ways, but also ease of transactions in regular life, and efficiencies in the workplace. It was like science fiction when it was released - in a land of fax machines and newly-minted touchtone phones, suddenly someone was talking seriously about retinal scanners and satellite technology. But there is much to discuss in this beyond the technology. (And if you have a multi-generational team, it is great to see those who remember these ads originally playing discussing them with those who laugh at the idea of AT&T being a major technology player.)


STAND-UP EXERCISE

Watch the video and then discuss as a team. Some potential questions to get you started -
- What did AT&T get right? What of these technology concepts do we see today? What did they miss?
- How are our personalized versions of these technologies different user experiences than the more public versions or community versions that AT&T imagined?
- What does it mean to vision this bold and then fall short? AT&T itself didn’t bring us these technologies, but would we still have these functions if someone hadn’t publicized them?
- How do we gamble on vision versus practicality?