A Gratitude Practice for Product Teams

by Kristen DeLap


We spend a lot of our time scanning for gaps - what’s missing, what’s broken, what needs to be better. It’s a big part of our job. But November is a good moment to pause and notice the scaffolding we don’t usually talk about: the customer behavior that reveals something meaningful, the constraint that sharpened our thinking, the teammate who quietly made things easier.

Gratitude in a product context isn’t fluff.
It’s a tool for clarity.
It can help us see where value actually comes from, and what enables good work to happen. It is worth taking some time to recognize the things we build on, not just the things we build next.

Teams that practice noticing what’s working (not just what’s missing) can make better contextual decisions. They communicate with more generosity. They can catch customer signals earlier. They avoid unnecessary tension. And they build more trust, which is the quiet backbone of any healthy product org.

Gratitude helps teams name the inputs worth protecting - the relationships, habits, and insights that give the work its sturdiness.

Where to look for gratitude in a product team setting:

  1. Gratitude for Customers
    What’s something a customer did, said, or struggled with recently that made our product better? Think about the small moments like a surprising workaround, an offhand comment, a behavior that reframed your understanding.

  2. Gratitude for Constraints
    What limitation (timeline, tech, scope, capacity) forced us to simplify or focus? Which constraint improved the outcome once the frustration faded?

  3. Gratitude for the Team Behind the Scenes
    Who made your job easier this month in a way no dashboard captures? A clear diagram. A thoughtful question. A fast bug fix. A structured meeting.

  4. Gratitude for Steady Systems
    What process, ritual, or tool quietly holds more weight than we acknowledge?Which of our habits would actually hurt if they disappeared?

  5. Gratitude for Growth Moments
    What moment stretched you, and ultimately made you better? A tough conversation. A pointed critique. A tradeoff that clarified what mattered.

Teams often think their value is defined by velocity. But the real story is the network of relationships, insights, constraints, and micro-moments that support the work. Naming these things isn’t just “feel-good energy.” It strengthens alignment. It builds trust. And it reminds teams that progress is never a solo achievement; it’s collective.

Gratitude helps us understand what enables us, not just what we produce. As we move into the last stretch of the year, this practice helps teams end on steadiness, grounded, connected, and aware of the things that truly matter.


STAND-UP EXERCISE

Using the five prompts of where to look for gratitude (above), ask the team to individually finish this sentence:

“Our product is better because _________.”

You might set a specific time frame (last 2 quarters, last year) to help focus the exercise. Capture the responses as a type of retrospective and way to tell the story of your product and team.

illustration of three team mates with hands in the air, surrounded by fall leaves and seasonal graphics

Tooling (and AI, of course)

by Kristen DeLap


The market is overflowing with tools - AI assistants, collaboration platforms, analytics dashboards, niche SaaS products (with AI integrated!) for every imaginable workflow. It’s tempting to try them all. But tooling is not strategy. A good tool accelerates existing strengths; a poor one multiplies inefficiencies.

Some organizations love to collect tools like shiny objects. Every pain point comes with a new platform, subscription, or “quick fix.” And of course AI has entered the landscape by force, as chat but also wizards within other platforms. Some teams are being mandated to be using AI, so that the business is not “left behind”. The problem: tools don’t solve problems. People do. Tools only accelerate (or complicate) the work depending on how they’re introduced and adopted.

Effective teams treat tools as part of their operating model, not as shiny objects. They introduce them intentionally, guided by a few questions:

  1. Fit — Does the tool align with the way people already work? If it requires people to constantly context-switch or feels like extra work, adoption will die fast. Tools should dissolve into existing habits, not demand entirely new ones.

  2. Friction — Does it remove barriers or add new ones? Does it work for everyone on the team or just a subset of folks?

  3. Focus — Is it solving the right problem, or just a problem? Does this distract from what we should be actually working on?

  4. Flexibility — What’s the plan if the tool doesn’t work out? Too often, teams get stuck with tools that don’t scale or can’t integrate. Part of “trying something new” should always include the question: If this doesn’t work, how do we exit?

Organizations that answer these questions up front could save themselves months of rework and resistance.

Too often, teams focus on what tools to use instead of how to use tools well. A team that doesn’t know how to run effective meetings won’t suddenly become effective with an AI note-taker. A company that avoids tough prioritization decisions won’t magically improve by adding another project management suite.

The tools that truly stick for your team might not be the buzzy ones. FigJam for collaboration. Miro for brainstorming. ContentSquare for understanding behavior. Yes, ChatGPT for drafting and discovery. But sometimes a shared doc and a standing meeting are still the most powerful tools you can have.

The best teams don’t chase every new tool. They learn how to audit, experiment, and fold the right ones into their culture. That’s how tools stop being shiny objects and start being leverage.


STAND-UP EXERCISE

At your next team stand-up, run a quick tooling audit together:

  • List the top 3–5 tools your team uses daily.

  • For each tool, ask:

    • How does this fit into our flow of work?

    • What friction does it remove? What friction does it add?

    • Are we using it to solve the right problems?

  • Choose one tool to experiment with improving. Compare notes on how each other uses it. Does someone need more training? Are there ways to be using it more effectively? Simplifying? Or a need to sunset it or an overlapping tool?

The goal isn’t to chase the next new platform. It’s to ensure the tools in use are actually serving the team, the process, and the outcomes.